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17 October 2015

Why do I only see my girlfriend as sweet and pretty?

Hi Jay,   It is good that you are still attracted to how pretty and sweet your girlfriend is after being together so long, but it sounds like this is getting in ...

16 October 2015

Why does my boss treat me differently to the others in my office?

Hi Ashley, Given how long you spend at work, it’s an awful shame that you cry most days and have endured a lot of trouble during your working hours. Perhaps asking the ...
16 October 2015

When will the rumours stop about me and my boss?

Hi Emma, Co-workers love a bit of gossip; it makes the day a little more illuminated and the time pass quicker. It also takes the heat off them if they have ...
15 October 2015

Am I with my partner for the sake of the kids?

Hi Anonymous, I would suggest booking an appointment with a sex counsellor before making any decisions on your relationship. It might be that a professional could help you figure out ...
14 October 2015

Why has my bridesmaid refused to come to my hen do?

Hi Sienna, Bridesmaids need to be your support system during the wedding process. If you feel she is not helping you in any way, then perhaps you could choose someone ...
12 October 2015

Will we ever resume our relationship again?

Hi Spark, If he has doubts over whether he will hurt you in the future then perhaps you've had a lucky escape. It might not have been a very secure ...
9 October 2015

Why do we have sex so infrequently?

Hi Kimberly, Perhaps the honeymoon period didn't happen for you because you waited so long to have sex. By that time you may have been so comfortable with one another ...
8 October 2015

I like to touch myself with silk-is this normal?

Everyone gets aroused by different textures, if this is something that works for you, it is nothing to feel ashamed about. A lot of people wear underwear made form silk, ...

8 October 2015

Why won't my partner let me touch him while he's asleep?

Hi JD, When someone is asleep it’s a very vulnerable place to be if they  wake up and realise that they are being touched without their consent or knowledge. It is ...
6 October 2015

How can I stop being bored of everything?

Hi Pit, If your sleep cycle is disrupted right now then that could be making you feel worse. At this time you have no one to talk to and there ...
6 October 2015

How can I help the situation between by mum and my partner?

Hi Robert, It is always difficult when two people you love don't get along. You mention that your partner doesn't like you mum 'for good reason', so its sounds like ...
1 October 2015

Should I ask my work colleague out on a date?

Hi Ellen, You would potentially be putting a relationship at a great disadvantage if he is to leave in just 5 weeks. If he did feel the same way, 5 ...

1 October 2015

How can I get my partner to initiate sex?

Hi Hussain, I would suggest talking to your partner about your sex life first. Couples can get into routines- if you have always been the one who's initiated sex, then ...
1 October 2015

How can I deal with the theft in my house share?

Hi Kayla, Perhaps you could talk to your roommates and ask them if they know anything about your tablet. If you have not met them all yet, then this might ...
30 September 2015

How can I ask my girlfriend to spend more time with me?

It sounds like your girlfriend might still be in the honeymoon phase with her dancing. If it's a new thing, then the novelty might wear off at some point, leaving ...
29 September 2015

Is it normal to feel jealous when my boyfriend goes out with his mates?

Many partners feel jealous when their loved one goes out with their friends. It can make people feel insecure if they think their partner is having more fun with their ...
29 September 2015

I heard my son and daughter in law having sex- should I tell them?

Although it might have been awkward to hear your son and daughter in law having sex- it sounds like it's been a comfort to you to find out that their ...
28 September 2015

Why does my partner take and never give anything back?

If you feel this way then perhaps you need to talk to your partner. She may have no idea you think this about her, so it might take you ...
25 September 2015

Is looking at porn classed as cheating?

Most men watch porn. They are very visual creatures whereas women are more psychological creatures. Men need to look at something whereas women can get themselves off with their imagination ...
24 September 2015

How can I get over the guilt of kissing another man?

If he forgave you, then it sounds like he accepted that it was a mistake, that you won't do it again and has moved on. The guilt may be strong ...
24 September 2015

My parents are having marital problems- what should I do?

Although you are a family unit, it sounds like this problem is between them if its marriage related as opposed to family related. Rather than getting involved or taking sides, ...
23 September 2015

How can I be sexually confident with a new person?

Chances are you didn't feel 100% comfortable with your previous partner right from the beginning. The likelihood was that you built up your confidence with them over time and you ...
23 September 2015

How can I tell my boyfriend I want to go back to being friends?

Although relationships move away from sex and more towards friendships the longer you are together, there still needs to be an element of attraction the beginning of any pairing. It ...
23 September 2015

How can I be close to my friend when I hate her boyfriend?

I would firstly ask why you don't like her boyfriend? Is it because he takes her time up that she could be spending with you? Are you jealous that she ...