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30 November 2015

Why is my wife lying to me about where she's going?

Hi DD, If you offer her nothing but honesty in your relationship then you should expect the same in return. If you are suspicious about her behaviour then it may ...
26 November 2015

Why is he ignoring me after our date?

Hi Iliana, He might have been busy and neglected to text you because his mind has been on work or something else. Perhaps your opinions of the how the night ...
25 November 2015

Is he being truthful when he says I'm the love of his life?

Hi Rebecca, It seems that you both want different things here. If he's confused then it might hurt you less to walk away. If you were to bend your own ...

25 November 2015

Why do I feel that something isn't right with my partner?

Hi Mike, It sounds like something might be going on behind the scenes here to make her change her mind so quickly. Perhaps if you have paid for things like ...
24 November 2015

How can I get my boyfriend to trust me?

Hi Teniqua, It sounds like he may have residual trust issues from a previous relationship. If his last girlfriend cheated on him then maybe it has made him very sensitive ...
24 November 2015

How can I get over my love of 11 years?

Hi Hayley, After 11 years of feeling the same way it will be hard to alter your thought processes and break the habit of loving this person. Perhaps some counselling ...
23 November 2015

Why are we fighting so much since we've returned home from travelling?

Hi Nicole, Many couples suffer the most after a long holiday or travelling trip because they are trying to establish a routine again while dealing with the grief of not ...
20 November 2015

Should I get counselling for my jealousy?

Hi Hannah, The main thing to focus on is that he is with you and not his ex and not the woman he had casual sex with. He has a ...
20 November 2015

My husband sleeps in a different room- is this normal?

Hi Sally, Many couples sleep apart permanently or on a regular basis because of disruptions to sleep like snoring. You're certainly not alone. If you're keen to have your partner ...
19 November 2015

Should I tell him I've quit smoking?

Hi Sinead, It is understandable that he does not want to risk going through the hurt of losing someone else he cares about to cancer. The proof is always in your actions ...
19 November 2015

Why is my partner playing games with me?

If the times you are calling are not suitable then perhaps suggest that he calls you so he is not just about to go to bed- you may be catching ...
19 November 2015

Is my ex playing mind games with me?

It sounds like you have done everything within your power to try and explain yourself to get him back. It seems that this message has made him lose his trust ...
18 November 2015

My husband has been sexting another woman- what should I do?

Hi Broken, The first thing I would do is enrol in some couple's counselling to explore why he felt the need to text someone else other than you in a ...
18 November 2015

How can I communicate with my wife more effectively?

Hi Mark, In some respects- men and woman do speak a different language because we are motivated by different things and are sensitive to others that our partners might not ...
17 November 2015

Why doesn't my partner talk to me about anything?

Hi Jade, This can be a difficult habit to break if it has always been this way. Perhaps some relationship counselling would help you to address this issue. He may ...
16 November 2015

Does he like me or is he just shy?

Hi Rachel, Blushing can be a sign that someone likes you as can a change in facial expression or eye contact- people have less control over these things than they ...
13 November 2015

Should I cancel my holiday because of my friend?

Hi Chris, It sounds extreme to cancel your holiday, especially if you have been looking forward to it. Plus you might lose your money if you do this. She might ...
13 November 2015

Why won't my wife let me near her?

Hi David, It is possible that this might be more about her than it is about you. Perhaps she is feeling insecure in herself and it's causing her to push ...
11 November 2015

How can I tell her how I feel after I kissed her sister?

Hi John, Chances are, if she suspected that you liked her before, she probably doesn't anymore after you kissed her sister. If you really like her then it might be ...
10 November 2015

Should I forget about the married woman I have met online?

Hi Mike, If you love her then you could wait, however 5 years is a long time to wait for someone and what if she changes her mind? If she is ...
10 November 2015

Should I continue to see him or forget about him?

If the only reason you want to be his is friend is because you hope he might change his mind then it may not be such a good idea. ...

6 November 2015

How do I deal with jealousy triggered by suspicion?

Hi Milo, I would first try to figure out if this suspicion is a result of you or your partner. If you are an insecure person at heart, you might ...
27 October 2015

Why is my husband so upset that I bought a vibrator?

Hi Catrin, If he knew you had a vibrator when you moved in and he bought one for you when you first got your house together, it doesn't sound the ...

17 October 2015

Why do I only see my girlfriend as sweet and pretty?

Hi Jay,   It is good that you are still attracted to how pretty and sweet your girlfriend is after being together so long, but it sounds like this is getting in ...