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25 January 2016

How can I tell my roommate I'm seeing someone else after he told me he loved me?

Hi Amy, If you get on well with him and you spent a large amount of time together last term, perhaps he formed a connection because you were the only ...
25 January 2016

How can I tell the people I work with I don't want to go out drinking with them?

Hi Maddy, There is nothing wrong with ducking out of something you know you won't enjoy. If you were to go and it was obvious you didn't enjoy it- then ...
22 January 2016

Why do I enjoy getting attention from guys so much?

Hi Lucie, There is nothing wrong with a little harmless flirtation- it can be a lot of fun. If you are not having sex with these men then you don't ...
21 January 2016

Why doesn't my partner initiate sex?

Hi Leeza, It may just be that you have mismatched sex drives. He may have a naturally low libido and you a high one. It doesn't necessarily mean that his ...
21 January 2016

Should I move back home?

Hi Queenie, I would suggest making a list of the pros and cons of moving back home. Be really honest with yourself in your choices and you might find there ...
20 January 2016

Why did my boyfriend break up with me?

Hi Kirsty, If he is telling the truth when he says that you didn't do anything then perhaps you can offer to talk to him. He may think that his ...
19 January 2016

Why is my roommate making me so unhappy?

Hi Caridee, It sounds like this girl is not really someone you can call your friend. Friends are there to lift us up and make us feel better about ourselves ...
18 January 2016

I was still on my period when I had sex with my boyfriend- will he think i'm disgusting?

Hi Erin, You are not the first and you won't be the last woman to think her period is over, have sex and find that it's not. Some couples enjoy ...
18 January 2016

Should I give my friend some money?

Hi Mel, Letters are always a good way of explaining everything thoroughly and clearly. You can explain all the things you have to me- about spreading your good fortune, not ...
14 January 2016

Why do we keep going back and forth in our relationship?

Hi Angie, If what you really want is something more serious, then it might be worth telling him that you don't want this ambiguity in your relationship anymore. The sex ...
12 January 2016

Why has my sex life gone stale?

Hi Sarah, It sounds like you have tried everything physically but perhaps haven't talked to your partner about this. If your efforts are going unnoticed then it might be time ...
11 January 2016

How can I help my boyfriend to be more financially savvy?

Hi Freya, If your partner isn't good with money, then perhaps you need to separate your finances. If he can't save up for a holiday, then don't book one until ...
11 January 2016

Why do I feel scared before my period?

Hi Penelope, Women experience a whole range of emotions before they get their period and one of these can be feeling vulnerable or overly sensitive. Not answering your phone and ...
8 January 2016

Why won't my girlfriend update her relationship status on Facebook?

Hi Dan, A lot of importance is placed on a Facebook relationship status now. It's the modern way of telling people you're with someone or available. That said by not ...
6 January 2016

Why don't I feel free to love again?

Hi Margaret, It will feel strange to let another person in. You might feel like you are cheating on your ex if this is the first relationship since you're separation. ...
6 January 2016

Why do I rely on my boyfriend for my happiness?

Hi GP, As you have proved- letting your happiness be dictated by your boyfriend only works some of the time as a distraction. It sounds like you might need to ...
5 January 2016

How can I balance study, family and my relationship?

Hi Deanna, It does sound like you have a lot on your plate right now. If you and your partner both work during the week, then perhaps you have your ...
5 January 2016

Is it weird that I'm wearing my boyfriend's sister's hand me down clothes?

Hi Nessa, Just because you wear their clothes doesn't mean you look like them. You might wear different combinations and accessorise them differently, which means you likely won't look the ...
4 January 2016

Why did she react so badly to me kissing her neck?

Hi Steve, Getting intimate with someone new is all about trial and error unless your partner tells you otherwise. You only get to know your lover's likes and dislikes if ...

30 December 2015

Should I contact the woman I met at the wedding?

Hi Robert, If you know you won't be seeing this girl again soon, if you want to speak to her before the next family gathering you may have to make ...

29 December 2015

Why does my vagina have a fishy odour?

Hi Roberta, Although it's tempting to wash more often when your vagina smells- sometimes it can actually make things worse. Anything highly fragranced alters the natural balance of the vagina ...
28 December 2015

My ex has asked me back- should we try again?

Hi Louise, If you have broken up and got back together three times previously, then it could be that the same problem is driving you apart each time. If you ...
26 December 2015

Should I go to the hen do or not?

Hi Betty, If you go the hen party then it may give this woman the impression that it's water under the bridge and you've moved on. If you tell everyone ...
24 December 2015

How can I help my girlfriend's anxiety?

Hi Raphael, It sounds like you have started to talk about her reactions to certain situations. It seems like her trust for you has grown if she is opening up ...