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22 September 2015

Should I leave my husband and move back home?

Perhaps the move has given you time to think and compare- maybe you are comparing your previous husband to your new one and he isn't measuring up. If he was ...
22 September 2015

Why am I bothered by my boyfriend's sexual past?

It is understandable that this might have come as quite a shock to you. Perhaps the amount of partners has made you worried about his fidelity to you. If he ...
21 September 2015

Why doesn't my friend text me?

Perhaps you should talk to him about this. It sounds like this is something that is bothering you but you haven't discussed it with him. If you tell him then ...
21 September 2015

How can I tell my friend she's a bad influence?

It is good that you have identified the influence she could potentially have over you or has had already. Some people don't even realise this until it's too late. They ...
21 September 2015

Why do I feel so guilty?

Sometimes people can feel guilty for not doing something with their free time- this is perfectly normal. Often we can feel guilty for doing very little with our time off ...
18 September 2015

Why has my husband set up profiles on dating sites?

Curiosity can drive us to do some out of the ordinary things; however it is normal- it's what you do about it that matters. It does sound like he was ...
17 September 2015

Why does my wife drink and expect sex every night?

It seems that you have both just got into a habit. Habits are really hard to break, however if you are keen on helping your wife, then you will need ...
16 September 2015

Why does my girlfriend want to go speed dating?

If you were both going then it could be something fun for you to do together. If you both had the same attitude towards speed dating, then it could potentially ...
16 September 2015

Why won't she talk about the kiss?

She might just be embarrassed and if you're not talking about it, then she may think that it was a kiss and nothing more or a mistake from your point ...
14 September 2015

Why won't my partner talk to me after our argument?

It sounds like whatever you argued about has hit a nerve with him and its taking him a little longer than normal to think it over. If you have tried ...
14 September 2015

How can I get my boyfriend to consider me more?

It sounds like because he still lives with his parents, he has fallen into a routine of thinking of himself first because he may not have had to consider someone ...
11 September 2015

Why won't my boyfriend commit and move in with me?

If you feel it's always on his terms then could you suggest a moving to a house that is located between where you both live? That way no one is ...
11 September 2015

Why does my mum think my son is spoiled?

The important thing to remember here is that what your mother said is her opinion, at a time when, like you say she was having difficulties. People say things they ...
10 September 2015

Why does it feel like I'm cheating on my girlfriend?

You have been with your partner for almost fifteen years. That's a long time to keep things fresh. Perhaps things have got stagnant with your partner and that is why ...
8 September 2015

I don't find my boyfriend sexually attractive anymore- what should I do?

What is it that you don't find sexually attractive anymore? Is it his appearance? Is it what he does to you in bed? Is it his attitude towards sex? It ...
8 September 2015

How can I get my boyfriend to take better care of his appearance and personal hygiene?

If you have already broken up over this and your partner has not changed then perhaps he never will as the thought of losing you does not seem to have ...
7 September 2015

Why does sex hurt?

There are four possible reasons for sex hurting. First, is an STI- they can make sex particularly painful so perhaps make an appointment with your doctor to get checked out ...
7 September 2015

How will I cope when my boyfriend goes travelling?

Long distance relationships are hard- there is no doubt about that but couples who have had to go through a time of being physically absent from one another often have ...
3 September 2015

How can I get over my office crush?

Perhaps the reason you are so drawn to her is because you associate her with good things. If she is constantly showering you with gifts and treats, then perhaps when ...
3 September 2015

How can I get my husband to be more intimate?

I would suggest making an appointment with a sex counsellor at somewhere like Relate. As you say, it does sounds like he is still capable of the type of intimacy ...
3 September 2015

How can I tell if a guy is into me?

If someone is really keen, then usually they make time to talk or see you. If you both got into the habit of talking every day then perhaps this is ...
2 September 2015

Why do I feel like I've wasted my life?

Everyone has periods in their life they regret, however it's important to explore through those feelings and look for the positive things that came from it. Perhaps now you now ...
2 September 2015

Why won't my boyfriend tell his father we're together?

It is understandable that you might feel down at your partner not being honest with his father. Often in this situation, it is tempting to look inwardly and start to ...
2 September 2015

Should I stick by my boyfriend or leave him for my ex?

It could be that you are drawn to your ex because you are having a hard time with your boyfriend. It is much easier to think the grass is greener ...